by Paul Chubbuck | Feb 19, 2020 | Featured
Deep Process By Paul Chubbuck What is a “deep process”? In childhood, when abuse, loss, or other trauma is experienced, there is often not adequate safety or support to process those feelings after the trauma. Therefore the need to survive and function demands the...
by Paul Chubbuck | May 17, 2018 | Uncategorized
The old joke goes: A police officer sees a drunken man intently searching the ground near a lamppost and asks him the goal of his quest. The drunk replies that he is looking for his keys and the officer helps for a few minutes without success. Then he asks whether the...
by Paul Chubbuck | Feb 20, 2018 | Featured
A question from my client: “I was excited about signing up for a class. But after the first session I’m anxious and doubtful that it’s really what I want. But if I drop it, I’m afraid I will feel even worse about myself.” What would you answer? Reply with your...
by Paul Chubbuck | Dec 20, 2017 | Featured
The Two Tall Guards A Christmas Poem that points towards Joy by Paul Chubbuck There’s a temple you long to enter, for through the warmly lit windows as you approach you see men and women dancing, a tree aglow with color, a fireplace’s flickering light, children...
by Paul Chubbuck | Sep 12, 2017 | Featured
Codependency: Why the Elephant Doesn’t Break Its Chain by Paul Chubbuck The circus visitor observed the elephant curiously and asked the caretaker, “Can’t that huge elephant easily break that little chain or pull that small stake out of the...
