Deep Process By Paul Chubbuck What is a “deep process”? In childhood, when abuse, loss, or other trauma is experienced, there is often not adequate safety or support to process those feelings after the trauma. Therefore the need to survive and function demands the...
A question from my client: “I was excited about signing up for a class. But after the first session I’m anxious and doubtful that it’s really what I want. But if I drop it, I’m afraid I will feel even worse about myself.” What would you answer? Reply with your...
The Two Tall Guards A Christmas Poem that points towards Joy by Paul Chubbuck There’s a temple you long to enter, for through the warmly lit windows as you approach you see men and women dancing, a tree aglow with color, a fireplace’s flickering light, children...
Codependency: Why the Elephant Doesn’t Break Its Chain by Paul Chubbuck The circus visitor observed the elephant curiously and asked the caretaker, “Can’t that huge elephant easily break that little chain or pull that small stake out of the...
Yes, Codependency Can Kill! by Paul Chubbuck Codependency: A relationship in which a person is overly reliant upon another for approval and a sense of identity, compelling them to control or appease the other. The relationship may have many unhealthy qualities...
Eclipse by Paul Chubbuck I have a date with the Sun and the Moon at a place where mountains climb. The Sun and the Moon will not be late as they speed their journey cross time. They speed in their journey cross time. Earth, Sun, and Moon have so long danced, for...